Sunday 8 April 2012

Real Pretty Pastel Wedding: Kirsty & Buzz

When it comes to wedding venues, I'm a sucker for the traditional English garden. So when Anna Rosell sent me these gorgeous pictures from Kirsty and Buzz's wedding, the first thing I spotted were the incredible portrait photographs, taken in the midst of the fabulous rose garden at Longstowe Hall. It's up there with the perfect setting for a romantic photo shoot, and finding a great wedding portrait location is definitely something worth considering when you pick your own wedding venue. At our wedding, we were lucky enough to have a field of wild poppies just next to our venue, and despite the slightly scary mosquitos, our photographer took some incredible pictures. Other wedding details I'm loving from Kirsty and Buzz's wedding include the pastel wedding details {very this season}, the turquoise accents in the wedding stationery, wedding programmes, menus, table plan and place names, and the incredible woodland-style flowers in the wedding marquee. Huge thanks to Anna Rosell for her fabulous wedding pictures.



The Before the Big Day Bride's Q&A - Kirsty was kind enough to fill in our bridal questionnaire, aimed at helping other brides with their planning process. Feast your eyes on her answers for helpful hints and tips from someone on the other side of her big day!

Where and when did you get married?
Our service was held at Cambourne Church, with the reception at Longstowe Hall in Cambridgeshire on 2nd July 2011

What was your thinking behind choosing the venue and the decoration of the reception?
One thing I knew was that I wanted to be married in a church, so it made perfect sense for us to celebrate our ceremony in our local family church. It meant we could have a personalised service with a minister who knew us, which made a massive difference with the nerves on the day! We chose Longstowe Hall as our wedding venue because it is simply stunning, as I'm sure you can see from the photos! They provide a superb service and inspired confidence in us that they would deliver a stress-free wedding day, which they did - fantastically. They really did make it all so easy.


Did you have a theme, colour or motif in mind?
Our theme was vintage / classic English country garden, to complement the venue. I aimed to keep it elegant but subtle, to let the beautiful venue speak for itself.

Who made your wedding outfit (dress, veil, shoes and accessories), and how did you come to that decision?
My wedding dress was a stunning Ian Stuart design and it was actually the first one I tried on in The Taylors Cat in Cambridge. It made me feel like a princess and I didn't want to take it off! I tried on lots of others but they didn’t make me feel the same, so at the end of the day we went back to that first dress. I think you know when it's THE dress when you love it so much you cant bring yourself to take it off! My accessories were all from The Taylors Cat as well, and handmade by them to complement my dress.

What about your husband’s outfit? Where was it from?
We hired my husbands outfit from Moss Bros. We chose Moss Bros because our groomsmen came from all over the country, and the idea was for them to pick up their suits from their local store. Well, there was a hick-up with the delivery of the suits to the wrong store but that was the plan anyway!

And how about your bridesmaids’ outfits?
My bridesmaids outfits were from Karen Forte in Cambridgeshire, and designed by Veromia. I had bridesmaids of very different sizes and shapes, but I was keen for them to have co-ordinating outfits, and this dress suited them all very well. The colour was a dark turquoise to fit in with the vintage theme. My young bridesmaid had a teen version of the dress with an ivory skirt, and my flower girl a separate ivory dress. This way the theme ran down through the dresses, but they were all were age appropriate.

What type of cake did you go for, and how did you come to that decision?
We chose a three-tier cake with three different flavourings – vanilla, chocolate and fruit. Our plan was to please all our fussy eater guests, as well as the traditionalists, and it worked really well. I can't say it was too difficult having to try all three at the tasting session! We chose a local cake maker, Sue Polhill Cakes and it was simply sublime! Her sugar craft flowers on the top complimented our florist's flowers perfectly and looked fabulous. She’d even preserved them and put them in display boxes for us, along with the cake topper because we loved them that much.

Did you have any favours? What were they? Was there any particular reason why you picked them?
We chose simple chocolate favours with our initials and a heart from Thorntons. We wanted something simple that we knew all our guests would enjoy, and they also served as the after dinner chocolates. The children also got wedding themed colouring books and crayons to keep them entertained during the speeches, which along with the massive lawn outside, seemed to do the trick!

Who was your florist, what flowers did you choose, and how did you come to that decision?
Our florist was Heidi Appleyard. She was my brother and sister-in-law's florist the previous year and was so imaginative and professional that I had no doubts I wanted her as our florist as well. Along with her stunning arrangements, one of my favourite things about Heidi is that she can take someone who knows nothing about flowers {me!}, and after a couple of consultations create designs that were so perfect for us, and our theme it was amazing. And she stuck to budget, no nasty surprises! It was all perfect and beyond anything I could have imagined.

Who designed your stationery? What did it look like and how did you come to that decision?
Our stationary was from an absolutely fantastic company that I can’t recommend enough, called Intricate Creations. I met them at a wedding show, and their stationery was so beautiful, I just couldn’t stop thinking about it. We chose a design and colour to match our theme as we wanted the stationary to be a part of the day, not an afterthought. I especially loved our table plan which was an important feature of our reception venue and all the guests raved about it!

Who was your photographer and how did you choose them?
Choosing my photographer was also easy. There were some of Anna Rosell's photographs on the venue’s website, and it was her pictures that made me fall in love with the venue in the first place! I knew that if she could get those shots there, then I would have some great memories to look back on. She was one of the first people I booked and she was extremely friendly and professional and our album is stunning. I couldn't have asked for a better memory of our day.

Did you enjoy planning your wedding?
At times yes, and at times no! It was great fun overall, but there is no doubting it's a lot of work for one {or two if you are lucky!} people. I had a set idea about how I wanted my wedding to be but I hadn't really thought much about the detail, so I sometimes wish I'd had longer to have done my research. However, it was a fantastic experience and great to be able to design something so intimate and meaningful for you as a couple. It would definitely be fun to be able to do all over again now I’ve had the practice!

What advice do you have for brides planning their big day?
My main advice would be to try and be organised! Have a timetable and stick to it, so you don't forget anything. Decide on your budget early and if possible, have an extra contingency amount set aside for the unexpected extras which seem to crop up. Also, one thing we splashed out on which we hadn’t originally planned for, was a videographer called Capture Your Day, and we are so glad we did. It allows you to see parts of your wedding you missed on the day and is a fantastic momento of the day. We absolutely love it!

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Saturday 7 April 2012

Win! Amazing Pocket Wedding Planner Book



Have you ever seen such a pretty book? And it's not just a pretty face - the newly released 'Pocket Wedding Planner' by Elizabeth Catherine Myers, is packed with helpful wedding hints. Elizabeth is an experienced wedding planner, and she promised to save you hundreds, if not thousands of pounds on your wedding day.

With chapters on choosing and booking your wedding venue, planning and organising the drinks and catering, wedding photographs and flowers, plus advice on choosing the bride's and bridesmaids' dresses, it'll become your wedding planning bible.

And you can win a copy thanks to Before the Big Day! All you need to do is Like Before the Big Day on Facebook, and leave a comment below with your wedding date, and I'll pick a winner at random on Saturday 14th April at midday.


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Real Destination Moroccan Wedding: Claire & Richard

If you're wondering how to make your wedding stand out from the crowd, have you considered a destination wedding? I've fallen for the idea of a wedding in Morocco - the flights are cheap, the wedding costs reasonable, and you're pretty much guaranteed good weather. Gorgeous couple Claire and Richard celebrated their wedding in an exquisite tropical garden in the Palmeraie area of Marrakech. I'm loving their fuchsia pink theme, the exotic birdcages {echoed in their wedding stationery} and the Moroccan decorations. With lanterns, rose petals, orange trees, billowing curtains and giant candelabra, it all looks so romantic. Guests drank traditional mint tea {yum!} and enjoyed a surprise performance of local 'Gnawa' musicians and acrobats, including some very spectacular fire-breathing. Huge thanks to Andreas Holm for taking such beautiful pictures, and to Boutique Souk for their fantastic wedding planning and design ideas.








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Friday 6 April 2012

Pretty & Easy to DIY Feather Wedding Detail

Bit of a wedding mini-trend for you. Have you considered adding a feather detail or motif to your wedding day? I'm loving these two details from a Natalie and Grey's wedding, which was featured on the Etsy wedding blog. Also loving their use of kraft-paper bags, simple doilies, pegs and twine - all fantastic DIY bride supplies! Check out Natalie's treasure-hunting blog and handmade Etsy shop.


{Photo Credit} Kenny Simmons Photography, assisted by Melissa Henderson.

*Update* I've just found more fabulous feather wedding inspiration via Pinterest & Style Me Pretty. Looks like this mini-trend might be getting bigger!


{Photo Credit} Bows and Arrows

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Elegant French Wedding Dresses by Delphine Manivet

After months of angst, I finally chose Delphine Manivet as my wedding dress designer, and I couldn't have been happier. Her gowns are made to measure, and exquisitely cut, with a playful modern edge. My wedding dress is called the Anatole - check out the pictures from my wedding day to see how it looked! Delphine's new collection has something for every bride, from slinky wedding dresses, to slightly poofy dresses, lacy gowns, cute mini-wedding dresses, and even wedding shorts. If I had my time again, I'd be very tempted to surprise by guests by wearing the outfit in the last pictures {on the right}. Which is your favourite?








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Thursday 5 April 2012

Fun Origami Wedding Favours & Wedding Cake Toppers

As soon as a spotted these fun origami wedding accessories, I knew I had to feature them on Before the Big Day. There's something super adorable about the hearts and stars, and as a wedding blogger, I feel inspired just looking at them! They'd work brilliantly as cupcake decorations, or topping cocktail stirrers. Alternatively scatter them like confetti on your wedding dining tables, or place on neatly at each place. If you were feeling extremely extravagant, you could given throw them as confetti! Created by Coppleshop and sold on Etsy, they're a super-green wedding detail, because you can make them out of recycled paper. Learn how to DIY your own 3D origami wedding hearts, and 3D origami lucky stars.

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Engagement Ring Tips for Boys

I have a secret to admit. I looked at wedding blogs before I got engaged. I know, less before the big day, and more before the proposal. However, I reckon I'm not alone.... So if you're not quite engaged, then it might be worth leaving this page open on your laptop, for your boyfriend to spy.... Buying an engagement ring is a big deal for a guy - not least because after his home and his car {bicycle?}, it's likely to be the most money he's spent at one item. So here are some fabulous Engagement Ring Tips for the man in your life, all thanks to our amazing wedding blog jewellery expert, Savannah from BL&T Fine Jewellery. Check out her other posts.


{Photo Credit} Sakura Photography via Modern Weddings

{Savannah} My Engagement Ring Tips for Boys

1. Think about your future wife's character? Is she outdoorsy and active? Yes? This means you'll want a practical engagement ring i.e. don't go for a massive rock, and choose a low setting.

2. Does she like larger jewellery statements? Yes? Think about a big rock. If you haven't got the budget for a massive diamond, read my posting on How to Buy Your Engagement Ring on a Budget

3. Listen and log any previous hints {has she mentioned liking a friend's engagement ring?}.

4. If you can do it yourself and not involve your future wife, you'll find it easier to keep the budget where you want it.....plus it's more romantic!

5. Think about engaged or married friends – you don’t want to buy a similar ring.


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Wednesday 4 April 2012

BHLDN Siren Wedding Dress Collection

If you're a regular reader of Before the Big Day, you'll know about my slightly {ahem!} unhealthy obsession with BHLDN. It's a fabulous online wedding boutique from the same brand family as Anthropologie {another obsession}, and it's full to the brim with wedding inspiration and ideas. So imagine my excitement when I stumbled across their new Siren collection. It's romantic, vintage and mysterious at the same time, and perfect for brides planning their autumn and winter weddings. Enjoy!








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Gorgeous Rustic Wedding Details You'll Love

If you don't want your wedding to be pretty and feminine...after all it's his wedding too, add a few of these rustic wedding details. I'm loving these gorgeous products from Etsy seller Blue Pearls - their use of natural fibres, like linen and string, fits right in with the eco-wedding look that is so hot this season. This fabulous rope wedding ring pillow is stunning, and I love the craft paper cutlery bags - perfect for a picnic-themed big day, or a nautical themed wedding.


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Tuesday 3 April 2012

Win $100 off Your Wedding Stationery

Another week, another fantastic wedding competition for my lovely Before the Big Day readers. One of the first fun details you'll choose for your wedding day is your wedding stationery, and you want to get it right, because it sets the tone for your whole big day. You want to get your guests exciting about your wedding as the party of the year, and your wedding invitations has the power to do just that! The only problem is that really good, creative wedding stationery is often super-expensive. Only yesterday, I had to explain to a friend and bride-to-be, that bespoke designs can cost up to £6 per invitation, and that's before the RSVP card, and any extras {whew!}. The good news is that companies like Minted are here to save the day. They have fabulous, original wedding invitations and unique Save the Dates for you to personalise as you wish. The even better news is that here on Before the Big Day I have $100 on Minted stationery to give away. All you have to do Like Before the Big Day on Facebook, and leave a comment below saying which of Minted's designs you like the most! I'll be picking the winner on 8th April at midday, so get commenting!



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