Monday 29 March 2010

Wed-Web Mentions

Here at Before the Big Day, we’re glowing in the limelight of several wed-web mentions, starting with the amazing Brides Magazine. Shopping Editor Astrid Joss, has been kind enough to blog about us, recommending BBD as a fabulous resource for Wedspiration. Check it out here.

One of our favouite photographer teams from the USA are the gorgeous girls at Simply Bloom. We love featuring their stunning pictures, and they've given us a lovely mention on their own blog right here.


Meanwhile, we're building up a happy relationship with the team over at Beautcamp Pilates. I've long been a fan of their classes, and with my own wedding fast approaching, I'm relying on them to get my figure picture-perfect. Look out for the Beautcamp Bridal package, hopefully coming soon. In the meantime, check out my mention here.

Real Wedding: Tamara & Adam

A gorgeous sophisticated urban affair for you today. Tamara and Adam celebrated their boutique wedding in Manhattan, with an exclusive group of only 35 guests. In this post-credit crunch world, more and more couples are choosing mini-weddings, where only the nearest and dearest make the guest-list. It guarantees a more personal big day, and there's nothing stopping you having big drinks party for your friends on another night. But first things first, check out these pics for stealworthy ideas! I'm in love with Tamara's Manolo Blahnik shoes, and her cute birdcage veil, the lace overlay of her dress.....in fact her whole outfit is stunning. Check out the signature cocktails that the couple chose for their big day, such a clever idea, and you can colour-code them according to your theme. Another fab idea to copy is their park-life ceremony, which super-saves on floral arrangements, and even music, if there's birdsong! Huge thanks to Karen Wise for her gorgeous pictures.

Tamara & Adam's fabulous vendors:
Dress: Elizabeth Fillmore
Shoes: Manolo Blahnik
Flowers: Blade Floral Design
Day of Planner: The Boutique Group
Cake: Silk Cakes

Friday 26 March 2010

DIY Week #8 - DIY Blogs

While researching DIY Week on Before the Big Day, I've stumbled across some truly fabulous DIY blogs, that I just have to share with you. Prepare yourself for an inspiration wave - I wouldn't start on these without a notebook by your side, because you're going to see so many amazing ideas, you'l forget where you started. If there's any couples out there who are struggling to find their inner creative genius, these sites will solve their problems.

I Do It Yourself - Luzel, Maddy and Sharon run this fabulous blog, that does exactly what it says on the tin. They offer quality freebies and templates galore, so whether you’re trying to find inspiration for that extra special touch, or just fancy saving a few pennies, be sure to stop by and pick up a few goodies. Here are a few of their latest projects.



Ruffled - This is a simply gorgeous vintage wedding blog, with a big emphasis on DIY. They're even running a DIY competition for readers with their own super-creative ideas. Check out a couple of the latest entries below, one for pinwheel table numbers and a pompom bouquet.


Martha Stewart Weddings is the doyenne of DIY bloggers. Her site is the most extraordinary resource for wedding crafters, updated daily with amazing idea upon amazing idea. You can find printable templates for just about everything you can imagine, plus a whole lot more. The pictures below barely scrape the surface!

DIY Week #7 - Vintage Romance

A vintage-themed wedding is a DIY dream. Collect antique accessories to scatter around the reception, use old books as table decorations and add old keys to wedding invitations to create a sense of romantic mystery. And then add a few of these gorgeous DIY projects to complete the picture. Check out these sites for more ideas.

Product Credits {from top} - Vintage Table Number Project: Project Wedding, Printable Vintage Labels: I Do It Yourself, Vintage Wedding Invitation Template: Download and Print, French Soap Labels: Ruffled, Marital Bliss Sign: Martha Stewart Weddings, Pink Postcard Template: Wedding Chicks

DIY Week #6 - Cox & Cox

Not into Do it Yourself at all? Wait till you've check out the gorgeous online boutique Cox and Cox. Their amazing products will tempt even the least crafty people into adding just a tiny dollop of DIY to their big day. Just look at these fabulous fresh ideas from their Spring collection, I want every one! 

Thursday 25 March 2010

DIY Week #5 - Green Fingers

You don't have to have green fingers to make fabulous floral arrangements and favours for your big day. Just check out these tutorials from Project Wedding and Erin Vale Designs. In both cases, all you need is a little bit of know how and a dollop of creativity, plus a ready supply of spray paint and moss. Check out the grow-your-own favour boxes, ideal for a DIY garden wedding, and why not add Love in the Mist seeds to the print-your-own sachets. The plants will flower every year, and remind your guests of your fabulous wedding each time they bloom.Gorgeous!


Product Credits {from the top} Daisy Pots & Grow-Your-Own Seedling Boxes: Project Wonderful, Print-Your-Own Seed Sachets: Erin Vale Design, Moss Pots: Project Wedding

Wednesday 24 March 2010

DIY Week #4 - Sweet Memories

http://www.marthastewartweddings.comWant to keep your guests sweet? Then give them home-made jam as a favour, and every time they spread it on their toast at breakfast, they’ll think of your wedding. Personalising jam jars is pretty simple, just print out the gorgeous free templates below, reach for the trusty glue and get sticking. Making the jam is a little harder, but if you want to buy jam and soak off the labels, I won’t tell if you don’t! For those of you with more talent in the kitchen, click here for a Martha Stewart recipe, and here for one from Domestifluff.

Product Credits - {top collage} Domestifluff, {middle top collage} Eat Drink Chic, {middle bottom collage} Martha Stewart Weddings {bottom collage} Merriment Design

DIY Week #3 - Dramatic Detail

Wow! This DIY wedding is a detail fest, and goes to show just how creative you can get, with a healthy dollop of enthusiasm and effort. Ashley and Matt have a shared love of music, and used old-skool vinyl as the theme for their big day. Their plates, printed picnic rugs, table numbers and favours all referenced records, while their use of black, white and yellow created a truly dramatic effect. Ashley also had the most original accessory I've seen on a bride so far - a cast on her leg. Evidence that you can literally break bones while preparing for your big day, and still look totally stunning. Huge thanks to Our Labour of Love for their gorgeous pictures.

Tuesday 23 March 2010

One for the Boys

Let's face it, weddings are pretty girly. Flowers, decor, dresses, candles, pom-poms....you get the picture. So thank goodness Brides magazine have stepped into the mix with a brand new blog for the boys. The Groom Blog, written by Andrew Shanahan, is a voice of sanity for grooms, best men and the all important father of the bride. Kicking off with advice on toasts and speeches, it's sure to become a major resource for the men in your life, while the Brides website will keep the ladies busy for hours. With stylish DIY hints, dreamy dresses, competitions and the chatroom, it's worth a daily visit. I've subscribed, have you?

DIY Week #2 - No Comparison

We have a lot of love for the US blog Inspired Bride. So it was a day of extreme excitement when we discovered that writer Maddy Hague had joined forces with Kristen Magee of Paper Crave {uber-cool stationer} to create an online magazine called Nonpareil. Their aim is to encourage their readers to approach weddings and other occasions with a focus on hip, stylish, do-it-yourself projects. They say their goal is to awaken your creative side and to help you plan a beautiful wedding in a more accessible way, and in my view, they're onto a winner.

Check out their free downloads and simple tutorials, and you'll be crafting gorgeous boutonnieres and favour boxes before you know it!

Monday 22 March 2010

DIY Week #1 Print Your Own

The biggest trend this season is DIY. It's a movement that's been in the making for a couple of years now, and the credit crunch was the tipping point. Crafting is booming! But what if you're not that good with a glue gun? Worry not, there's loads of DIY projects out there for the beginner, and all this week we'll have features to get you going.


So let's kick off with invitations. If you're super-creative you'll design your own, but there's plenty of templates out there in the blogosphere for free, and even more available on Etsy to buy, personalise and print at home. But what printer should you use? Fab blog DIY Union has the answers. Graphic Designer Leslie recommends the Epson Stylus Photo R280 Photo Printerand has hundreds of print-hints on paper, ink and lasers.

Right, now you've got the know-how, it's time for the fun bit. Choosing your template. Check these out for size.....and the best thing? They're all FREE!



Product Credits - {top collage} Wedding Chicks {middle collage} Martha Stewart Weddings {except for the Cheese Invitation} Real Simple {bottom collage} Download and Print

Saturday 20 March 2010

Say it with Verse

You've said it with diamonds and the best Chanel, now give the gift of expression and say it with verse. Impressed? Unfortunately, it's not my own work, but that of the clever people at Poetry A La Carte, who compose bespoke poems for those of us who feel romantic, but don't know how to express it. All you need to do is fill in a questionnaire on their website about the subject of 'your' poem, pay them £150, and they'll put pen to paper on your behalf. Fantastic as a surprise present for your groom, or even as a wedding gift for a happy couple. **Hot off the Press** The lovely Mark at Poetry A La Carte is offering £25 off each poem to readers of Before the Big Day!

Friday 19 March 2010

Loving Lashes

These may well be the coolest thing since sliced bread! Fresh from the ancient art of Chinese paper-cutting come these heavenly eyelashes.They come in five designs, representing different Chinese symbols; peach blossom for love, horses for success and peonies for happiness.Smaller versions are available for a more subtle daytime look, although believe me, this is not a look for the shrinking voilet. They're fierce! Purchase a pair before your friends do, and I dare you to dress your bridesmaids in them. Only £12 a pair from Luna & Curious.

Choosing a Photographer

It's a minefield, choosing your wedding photographer. These are the pictures that are going to grace your granny's mantlepiece for the next twenty years, so you want to be looking good. But that's not the only thing to think about - you need to decide your style. Will it be traditional or reportage, arty monochrome or popping colour like a Mario Testino shoot? Do you want your photographer to be a man or a woman? And the elephant in the corner - what's your budget?? To help you answer some of these thorny questions, we sat down with well known British photographer, Mark Bothwell, to discuss some key points to consider when commissioning the person who could make or break your big day.....

BTBD : As a photographer, you understand how important your role is on a couple’s big day. You’re a paid guest {!} and in charge of recording our memories – a huge job! So…when choosing a photographer, what should we be thinking about?
“It’s impossible to narrow it down to one area, it’s a process which happens in stages. First of all clients contact photographers whose work they like - that could be a group of as many as a dozen. From there, cost will narrow the field down, and then it’s usually based on instinct. The couple have to often warm to one particular photographer. In my experience couples will often be prepared to go beyond their budget if they really like a photographer’s attitude, so while quality of work is the hook, personality is often the clincher. Photography at a wedding is a very pivotal task, you’re being trusted with a huge day in people’s lives and you can’t underestimate the responsibility of that role. My own attitude is to give the absolute maximum each time you’re commissioned because you’ll never get the chance to impress that particular group of people ever again”

BTBD : What’s the deal with photography packages? How do they work?
“I cant speak for anybody else, but for me this is really clear cut. I hate the whole package idea, I just don’t see the point as it confuses the issue. People want clarity, transparency and to know what they’re paying for, and why. My personal approach is to have a price for the photography, a price for books and a list of unit costs for prints. This simple approach allows couples to piece together as much or as little as they wish. You wouldn’t believe the stories I hear about photographers who bamboozle clients with this, that and the other.

BTBD : We’ve been to so many weddings where the photographer took ages to shoot the family groups. Is this an inevitable part of the process, is it always like that?
“No, not at all. I hear this stuff too, and it’s so frustrating because we all get tarred with that brush. I suppose if you give a photographer a list of 30 family groups then it’s going to take ages to shoot, but you have to decide whether you really need that? Maybe it’s because of my reputation and style of working, but I’m never asked to shoot groups in any quantity. My clients don’t want their day interrupting with an overly formal approach, plus it greatly reduces the natural feel of your pictures. A wedding day is a gentle, intimate occasion, and I think it’s really poor and quite invasive for somebody to walk in and dictate the pace of the day, which trust me some try to do. A photographer works for the couple, it’s not the other way around.

BTBD: Loads of our friends have got printed books of their wedding pics rather than traditional albums. How do you decide which shots to choose? Can we choose which ones we like and the layout?
“Absolutely, I think it’s very important couples feel they can get involved in the final look of something which will hopefully be valued for many years to come. It comes back around to that principle of being flexible, because high quality art books aren’t cheap, so why would you settle for something less than you know you can have? Speaking for myself, initially I’ll design a draft, then turn this over to the client to check. They can then list changes, or come into the office and direct their ideas for improvement in real time on the big screens. I would go as far as to say that often couples really enjoy a mini stint as an art editor, it’s a fun and collaborative process which always yields better results for them, which is the ultimate goal. If you want that level of involvement, you need to tell your photographer what you want, so they can work round you.

BTBD : What’s the deal with copyright. It seems weird that a photographer can own the copyright to my wedding pictures?“This is another straightforward area for me because I always offer the ownership of the photography to clients – after all it’s their big day! The feedback I receive from clients who have spoken to other photographers who don’t offer the rights automatically is that the they are suspicious of hidden costs later and that something is being almost kept from them. It supports the theory that couples want a clear, easily understandable arrangement with their photography and I consider confusion as a fast route to mistrust.

BTBD : Lastly, wedding photography gets a bad press sometimes among other pro photographers, why do you think this is?“It’s a great point, and something I find increasingly amusing. The basis for this attitude is that anybody can  show up and take pictures, and often weddings take place on the weekend so people abuse the trust placed in them in the pursuit of easy cash. But this exists in all areas of life, not just the wedding industry. It’ll be the same with fashion, news, products, etc.. There are lots of suppliers who are awful, many who are good and a small group who excel. Life in a nutshell, really”

{Mark’s portfolio can be viewed at www.markbothwell.com}

Thursday 18 March 2010

BBD Theme: The Royal Peacock

One of the micro-trends for this summer's weddings will be peacock feathers. Dramatic, colourful and romantic, they're a super-versatile design detail to add to your big day. You could use them as a graphic on your invitations or add actual feathers to your bouquet and buttonholes. Or for a more subtle effect, pick out the iridescent colours to theme your bridesmaids' dresses and flowers. You could even have real life peacocks strutting their stuff in the gardens around your venue. Check out the wedding below for more inspiration.

{Product Credits - from top left: Giant Feather Fan: Mamaz57, Feather Shoe Clips: RadoKri, Hair Clip: Vie Moderne, from middle left: Feather Stationery: Meant to be Sent, Peacock Dress: Vrreis, from bottom left: Earrings: Boutique Peony, Feather Hat: Liaison, Badge: NY Jole Jewellery, Hair Fascinator: Vie Moderne, Stationery: Apple Berry Ink

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Real Wedding: Kristi & Antony

Kristi and Antony should be as proud as peacocks {sorry!} of their incredible wedding style. We love Kristi's feather bouquet, fan and satin shoes, adoore the raspberry cake and check out those bridesmaid's rings - fierce! A huge thank you to Christine Chang for letting me put up her gorgeous photographs. Don't miss her fabulous website and blog.




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