Monday 19 November 2012

Real Rustic DIY Barn Wedding: Vanessa & Aaron

There's nothing I like more than hearing about a bride for whom her wedding day was the start of a whole new life. Obviously marriage is a fresh start for every couple, but sometimes, while planning a wedding a bride {or groom} discovers a whole new creative side to her personality, and that leads to a whole new business. My wedding led me to start Before the Big Day, and it's the best thing I've ever done! Vanessa's love was stationery, and after designing her own, she started a company called Beautiful Ink, which makes beautiful, fairly priced wedding stationery. But that wasn't her only wedding DIY project - between them, Vanessa and Aaron created most of their rustic wedding details, including the table numbers, table plan and table decorations. Wedding favours were mini pots of honey made by Vanessa's father's bees {wow!}, and Vanessa's mother arranged the venue flowers. Add in the prettiest pair of sunshine yellow shoes, Vanessa's gorgeous vintage-style wedding dress, and  handmade headdress by What Katy Did Next, and you've got a wedding that couldn't be more up my street! Huge thanks to Pete and Laura Lawson from Lawson Photography for their stunning pictures - don't miss the reception shots later today.

We got married this summer on 14th July 2012 at Rivington Hall Barn in Lancashire near where my parents live and where I’ve grown up.



I found my dress in the first bridal shop I visited. It’s by Augusta Jones from Limelight Occasions, and it's beautiful. I loved the lace, the tulle, everything about it just worked, yet looked effortless. The tulle draped behind me from my waist like a veil but cleverly was in two parts so it could be scooped over my arms to create a shawl.


As my dress had its own veil of sorts I decided I wanted a headpiece instead. I really struggled to find something that suited my vintage-style dress until I stumbled across Katy from What Katy Did Next. Her work is gorgeous - she really understood what I was looking for, and together we designed a headpiece, which she handmade for me. It was stunning and looked perfect with my dress. She also made my bracelet, and small flower accessories for my hair. She was great! I also added a pearl necklace and earrings from my late Grandfather, which was really special. 

Aaron chose a grey lounge suit from Carl Stewart Menswear near our home in Yorkshire, and co-ordinated it with a cream waistcoat and yellow cravat. His ushers wore the same suits, but with sage green cravats to match the bridesmaids dresses.

Aaron's always worn odd socks and didn’t want his wedding to be different so scoured the internet in search of yellow and green striped socks. Once he found them, he kitted out all his groomsmen in them as well! In the evening Aaron and I both swapped into comfortable Toms espadrilles for dancing in the evening.

My mum loves flowers, so she took the helm in finding the florist, and fell in love with Blossom Flowers in Chorlton, who create really natural and seasonal wedding flowers. Becky from Blossom created all the bouquets and buttonholes using yellow, cream and green flowers and foliage, that looked stunning. My bouquet was tied with tulle to match my dress, and the buttonholes had a hessian bow around them. 

The bridesmaid’s dresses were from Celebration Bridal near my home in Yorkshire and were long chiffon dresses in sage green, which suited my blonde bridesmaids perfectly. They also had flowers in their hair and their bouquets had long trailing yellow ribbons trailing.


We currently live in a small village in Yorkshire and have both embraced country living so were keen to have our wedding theme be rural and country. The barn was a perfect venue and this encouraged our ideas over our wedding theme to develop.


We chose yellows and greens for our colours, to represent the country garden elements we were trying to achieve. We kept our colours running throughout, from the striped straws to the flowers arranged by my mum. It all just felt very natural and personal which was what we wanted.


As a child we used to have school discos and barn dances at Rivington Hall Barn, but I’d never thought of it as a wedding venue until my mum mentioned it. We both wanted a relaxed wedding and felt the barn really made this possible; it’s stunning inside and has lovely grounds.




Our photographers were Lawson Photography and we just fell in love with their photography style - and how everyone is happy and smiling in such a natural way in all their photos!

Pete and Laura Lawson work as a team and captured every moment and tiny detail of our wedding; they are also lovely, friendly people who really put Aaron and I at ease in all the photos. They also live just round the corner from Rivington Hall Barn, so it was meant to be!



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Friday 16 November 2012

Say Cheese with a Wedding Cake

If you'd choose savoury over sweet any day of the week, then you might not want a wedding cake. But what to have instead? Well to keep with the tradition of tiers, why not try a multi-level cheese cake? You could create the cake yourself, but for a guaranteed beauty, check out these Cheese Shed wonders. The West Country shop sells several off-the-peg designs, but are more than happy to provide a bespoke service for the picky cheese-eaters among you!


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Thursday 15 November 2012

Autumn & Winter Wedding Ring Bearer Pillow

There's a moment at every UK wedding when everyone turns their attention to the best man - it's his big moment, time to hand over the wedding rings. At US weddings they do things differently - usually the rings are carried on a pillow by a pageboy or flower girl. I'm super-keen on the American tradition, particularly because it's another opportunity for you to personalise your big day with pretty wedding details! For example, take a look at this rustic pine cone ring pillow by Etsy-seller Rustic Blend. It's the perfect accessory for an autumn or winter wedding, and I love its handmade charm. For more ring pillow ideas, take a look at my Pinterest board.


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Wednesday 14 November 2012

Do or Don't? Gifts For Your Bridesmaids

Are you planning to give your bridesmaids a wedding day present? I can still remember the gold necklace my cousin gave me on her wedding day - my sister and I were her flower girls. It was stunning, a simple delicate chain, and I wore it for years. It was an amazing momento of one of the best days of my childhood. If you're keen to buy your bridesmaids a present, but your budget doesn't stretch to gold jewellery, how about a personalised gift? Printed photo books for bridesmaids are a fantastic idea; include all your favourite pictures from the years you've known each other. Similarly, photo books from Blurb make for great post-hen night presents - full of pictures from the bride's last night of freedom. Alternatively there are tonnes of original ideas on the handmade shopping site Etsy, from personalised totes and kimonos, to sewing kits, posters and stationery sets. Here are a just a few of my latest must-haves.

{Product Credits} Clockwise from top left, 1. Personalised Stationery Sets, 2. Personalised Name Poster, 3. Bridesmaid Kimono, 4. Bridesmaid Tote, 5. Monogram Star Necklace, 6, Monogram Stitched Lavender Sachet, 7. Monogram Mini Sewing Kit.

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Tuesday 13 November 2012

Real Vintage Sweetie Themed Wedding: Emma & Nick

One of my biggest aims at my own wedding was to treat everyone to a truly fabulous night. I had that Christmassy feeling of excitement about my big day, and I wanted all my guests to feel the same way. Emma and Nick must have had exactly the same feeling, because they indulged their guests with an amazing smorgasbord of treats, from a vintage sweet favour cart, to a chocolate fountain and cupcakes to finish - yum! I love Emma's pretty wedding style, from her elegant up-do, and 'something borrowed' tiara, to her stunning strapless wedding gown and sparkly shoes. Don't miss Emma's words of wisdom in her answers to Before the Big Day's bride's questionnaire. She bought her bridesmaids dresses for only £15 each, and even DIY'd her own wedding stationery! Gorgeous pictures published with thanks to Lee Waymont Photography.

My dress and veil were from Bellissima in South Woodham, I wore my Mum's tiara and had super sparkly silver shoes hidden under my dress :o).

We got married on the Bank Holiday weekend, on Sunday, 26th August 2012 at St Mary's Church in Bocking, reception followed at Fennes. We wanted our wedding theme to be simple and understated, but elegant, so we kept to silver and pink colour theme, with butterflies as the motif of the day.

My bridesmaids' dresses were a bargains of the century! The gowns were from H&M - they were £35 maxi dresses, which we had altered by a dressmaker for £15 each to create a cute summery pretty length!

Nick treated himself to a full suit with tails from William Hunt in the sale ☺

For our flowers, we used a local florist called The Wedding Stores. Our original plan was to DIY our flowers, but after meeting the florist, Fay, she totally understood what we wanted and we couldn’t have been happier with the results. Plus it was such good value for money!!




Nick and I met on separate holidays with friends, and completely by chance discovered we lived 5 minutes from each other. Twelve months ago Nick surprised me with a weekend away {secret time booked off work, etc} to a beautiful cottage in The Cotswolds. He'd arranged a private table in the gardens, by a lake. 

He told me had two surprises, one romantic and one joke. As the romantic present, he gave me a book of love, including photos of our years together and beautiful poetry. Then he asked me to close my eyes for the joke present, and I discovered him down on one knee asking me if I would do him the honour of being his wife. It was amazing.



My advice for brides to to enjoy every stage of the planning process! If something happens that begins to stress you out, just take a couple of steps back and distance yourself for a day or two. Remember its YOUR day, and while you might want to please other people, make sure there are a couple of things in there that really reflect you both as a couple. Oh, and task someone – a bridesmaid or an usher - with the job of taking the guest book from table to table – so worth it and the only thing I wish we’d done but forgot to! Most of all have fun!

I thoroughly enjoyed planning our wedding and wish I could rewind and do it all over again! I’m a pretty laid-back person anyway, but I didn't see any need to stress out! Six days before my wedding, my dressmaker even told me I was the calmest bride she'd ever seen. I am so pleased I made the most of it all, only 2 bouts of tears in the 12 months over 'wedmin' stress ha!


For our wedding photographer, we chose Lee Waymont Photography who was recommended to us by a friend whose wedding he photographed last September. We have been so so impressed by his work, and he was an absolute star on the day too.

We wanted a venue that would reflect us, sweet and not too fancy… we did lots of research, but ultimately fell in love with Fennes before we had even seen it in real life! Decoration-wise, we wanted things simple and sweet. Literally… we incorporated something we both love in the decorations and in the theme, with a vintage sweet cart, chocolate fountain, a wishing tree table plan with names of our favourite sweets, and we even named our tables after sweets.

For our wedding favours we had a vintage-style sweet cart, as well as a chocolate fountain - yum! We also gave each guest a silver butterfly stirrer with a romantic quote, and filled large martini glasses with sweets for a centrepiece on each table. One was filled with candy watches, another with mini eggs, and another with strawberry bon bons, they went down sooooo well, although we have lots of lollipops left over!

For our wedding cake we chose a cupcake tree, we had to – I love cupcakes so much and everyone knows it!  I make them all the time, and eat them all the time, ha and yes Nick did put one in my face on the wedding day!!




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Monday 12 November 2012

Wedding Accessory High Street Finds

The first port of call for brides on a budget should always be the High Street. There's a great British tradition of providing stylish fashion at budget prices - something other countries are desperate to imitate. Whether you actually stomp the streets is an entirely different question, as every website worth its salt now has a fantastic online option. This season, I'm particularly impressed by the selection of earrings at Anthropologie. They're perfect for your 'something blue', or as bridesmaids gifts. Also, don't miss Jenny Packham's diffusion line, I've fallen for her fluffy feather stole and White Swan-style headband.


{Product Credits} 1. Precious Cluster Earrings {£98},  2. Cynosure Mobile Earrings {£28} 3. Concert Hall Drops {£28} all Anthropologie

{Product Credits} 1. Ivory Feather Stole {£100}, 2. Ivory Jewelled Headband {£48} 3. Grey Halo Feather Headband {£35} all No.1 Jenny Packham for Debenhams

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Friday 9 November 2012

Real Shabby-Chic Wedding: Bethany & Ethan

Backyard weddings are always among the most intimate of real weddings, and this one is no different. Bethany and Ethan decided they wanted an Anthropologie style wedding, filled with personal touches and hundreds of details. Bethany’s mom hand sewn all the gorgeous quilts that were a main part of the homespun decor. Handmade vintage ribbons and banners were strewn about the house saying things like “celebrate” and “eat drink and be married!” Bethany’s wedding dress was custom made on Etsy, and all the flowers and vintage decor display was designed by the talented Annette Gomez. I love all the wedding details, including the vintage typewriter for guests' messages to the bride and groom. Gorgeous pictures published with thanks to This Modern Romance.


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