Hey DJ - How to Choose Your Wedding Music

Wedding dancing. It's a whole genre of its own. But how can you guarantee your guests will fill the dance floor all night? Why not ask them for their favourite tracks? Leave these fab, free, print-your-own cards on the tables through dinner, and encourage your guests to fill them in during dinner. They'll make for a fantastic conversation starter, and you can ask one of the ushers to pick them up ahead of the cake-cutting. Huge thanks to the team at brilliant blog The Wedding Chicks for this inspirational idea. Click here for the template.

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Real Red Balloon Vintage Wedding: Jennie & Brian

I am absolutely crazy about this wedding! Jennie and Brian picked a paint-strip palette for their big day and used it to fabulous effect, with Jennie even asking her girlfriends to dress in coordinating hues of pink and red. Add in the heart fans and 'Sex in the City' style balloons, plus those gorgeous satin shoes, and you've got a marriage made in heaven. Extra brownie points for the vintage decoration-details and Newlywed's Game. Massive thanks to Our Labour of Love for their fantastic photographs.

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Destination Wedding Stationery

It's December, it's cold and it's wet and it's dark by 4pm, and in my book, that makes it time to start picking out your destination wedding stationery! Even if you're not getting married abroad, these invites are bound to raise the glummest of moods, and with the added benefit of supporting small, creative businesses, what's not to like?

{Product Credit} Stationery above designed by Beyond Design

{Product Credit} Stationery above designed by Inky Livie

{Product Credit} Stationery above designed by (clockwise from left) Sunshine & Ravioli, The Stylish Scribe and Rubber Ducky Designs

{Product Credit} Stationery above designed by The Paper Peony

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♥ ♥ ♥ Temperley Wedding Dresses

{sigh!} How exquisite are these Temperley wedding gowns, if only they were cheaper! Every single one is a work of art, from modern sculptural to boho bliss, which is your favourite? Designed by Brit Alice Temperley, the label is renowned for its intricate embellishment and beadwork - perfect to make you stand out from the bridal crowd.

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Fabulous Weekend Wedding Blog Links

This weekend is going to be all about getting in the festive spirit for Christmas. I'll be buying my tree from Columbia Flower Market, along with as many wreaths, poinsettias and baubles that I can fit in my little car. This year we're having a pretend Christmas at our house on Thursday 22nd December, because The Boy and I are going away somewhere hot on Christmas Eve. So I'm determined to get the flat looking as Christmassy as possible for all our family. There's tonnes of DIY Christmas ideas if you look on Pinterest here, and lots would work perfectly at a winter wedding of Christmas themed wedding. Now we've just got to wait for the snow, although in the north of England, you guys have already had a sprinkling haven't you? Enjoy your weekend, and these lovely wedding blog links! Don't forget to come back on Monday, when I've got an extra-special Christmas present for all you brides-to-be!

{Photo Credit} Rebekah Westover Photography

♥ Winter wedding ideas - imagine if you were snowed in! {via wedding blog Green Wedding Shoes}

♥ 100 wonderful ideas on how to personalise your wedding

♥ Tonnes of wedding food inspiration on Jamie's new festive site, including a hot chocolate recipe - yum!

♥ A winter spice wedding inspiration board

♥ An incredible mountain winter wedding with a cute snowy owl motif {via fav wedding blog Snippet & Ink}

♥ I've always been a fan of muffs for bridesmaids {no sniggering at the back}

♥ Who says winter weddings have to be all about red and green? Neon ideas here! {via wedding blog 100 Layer Cake}

♥ One of the most brilliantly styled modern weddings of all time.

♥ Morse code bracelets for your loved ones - give them a secret message! {via my fav lifestyle blog Cup of Jo}

♥ This week my sister went to a OnePiece party, and brought me back this amazing freebie!

♥ For a burst of sunshine, check out this stunning wedding - loving the prints on the bridesmaids' dresses! {via wedding blog Ruffled}

And my favourite postings from Before the Big Day this week....
♥ A peaches & cream English wedding
♥ A masterclass in how to use colour at your wedding
♥ A detail-filled DIY real wedding

Plus a huge welcome to my lovely new sponsors - you won't believe how talented they are at what they do!
♥ Photo Madly Wedding Photographers
♥ The Beautiful Wedding Company
♥ Contemporary Wedding Photography

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Real Winter Red-Themed Wedding: April & Kit

Red, the colour of passion and shoes! April and Kit decided on a winter wedding and celebrated their big day in style, with bright blue and rich red as their theme colours. A bold choice, it totally paid off, and made for a bright and cheerful wedding, despite the grey day. April completely nailed bridal-chic, and looked stunning in a Sottero & Midgely dress, cosy red coat and awesome red shoes by Chinese Laundry. I love the way the bridesmaids' necklaces and the ribbons on their bouquets match exactly, such fabulous styling! These gorgeous pictures are thanks to US photographer Stephanie Williams.

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Why We ♥ Mr Boddington Wedding Stationery

I have a HUGE crush on a man called Mr Boddington who lives in New York. Don't worry, I'm not being unfaithful to my fiancé, this affair is all about stationery, and once you've spotted Mr B's amazing work, you're going to want him too! From his studio designs to his bespoke service and ready-to-print collection (for couples on a budget) - these pics will leave you drooling.

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Real Bahamian Beachside Wedding: Jade & Matt

Hands up who wishes they were in the Bahamas right now? Well I'm afraid these wedding pics aren't going to help. Taken by the gorgeous team at Our Labour of Love, you can almost feel the sulty heat and smell the sea breeze. Close your eyes, and you'll hear the slap of waves agains the wooden jetty, and the clatter of palm branches. Okay, fantasy over, now it's time to get down to the steal-worthy ideas. The best thing about a destination wedding is that you can save a fortune on flowers and decorations, as the location does it all for you. Check out the gorgeous palm arbour where they Jade and Matt said their vows, and the exquisite, simple, white button-holes. I'm also head-over-heels for the boys' suits - neutral linen = totally gorgeous.

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