My Wedding - Flowers & Pom Poms

Now that my wedding is all finished {sad face}, there's nothing I like more than helping other brides with their wedding details and wedding ideas. I can remember oh so clearly how important every little detail can feel. For me, our wedding decorations were really important, and I was really keen to have truly beautiful flowers. The only problem was our budget, which was seriously tight, and didn't allow for big, extravagant displays. I was also worried about the flower containers, and I became obsessed with vintage, galvanised watering cans. I seriously considered buying about 30, until I realised it would end up costing about £900. Then, while in a florist, I spotted their old galvanised flower cans, and I had my stroke of genius! I'd forgotten about this detail, until I got this lovely email from a Before the Big Day reader {see below}. If you'd like to get in touch, do send me an email, or leave a comment below this posting.

Hi Georgia,

Having fairly recently got engaged, I stumbled across your blog, and I have to say I am now hooked! If you don't mind, I had a couple of questions about your own wedding, some of the details are gorgeous! Firstly, the baby's breath in the ceremony room looks so good - where did you get those holders from (the metal ones with a handle)? And secondly, I love the pom pom idea (and the idea of getting my boy to do it!) What material did you use for yours and how did you find out how to do it? Hope you don't mind me getting in touch, Kate x

ANSWER

Hi Kate! Lovely to hear from you! I'm so pleased you're enjoying the blog!

The metal containers for the baby's breath are standard florists vases - the types that they have in the shops. I actually borrowed them from our French florist, but you can buy them in the UK. If you search for wholesale galvanised florist vases, they usually come up. Here's one example. The only thing is that they're often a bit shiny and new, so if you're going to buy them, it might be worth buying them early, and then leaving them outside, for the vintage look.

The pom pom idea is one of my favourites! We recently did black ones for our Halloween party, which worked out really well. They're surprisingly effective. Here's a link on how to make them! They ended up in nearly every picture!

Good luck with all your wedding planning - do stay in touch! xGeorgia

Picture Credits {top two} Caught the Light, {little bottom one} Jemma Harding Photography.

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We ♥ Sample Sales

Good news ladies! I'm always getting emails from lovely Before the Big Day brides who are worried about the cost of wedding dresses. We all want to look our most gorgeous on our wedding day, and in my view bridal designers prey on that insecurity and charge MUCH to much for their wedding dresses. The good news is that occasionally they also offer huge reductions at secret sample sales. As a wedding blogger, I'm always on the hunt for these sales, and I'll always keep you up to date, either via the wedding blog {check out the Sample Sales tab at the top of the page}, or via Twitter {follow me here}. Autumn is a big season for sample sales, and there's a very exciting one coming soon.....the UK's first ever Super Bridal Sample Sale hosted by Brides magazine on Friday 11th November. Yes, that's THIS Friday, from 5-10pm at the Langham Hotel. For one night only, the ballroom of The Langham Hotel in London will be transformed into a mammoth bridal boutique with hundreds of dresses, bridesmaids dresses and accessories to try and buy, and all at a fraction of the price. I'm excited and I'm not even getting married! Please pass on the word to all your friends who are getting married - after all, in this day and age, who doesn't want to save their pennies. For more information, click here, tickets cost £10 and booking is essential.

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Before the Big Day Wedding Theme: Glittery

Sometimes a huge wedding trend grows out of a more mainstream fashion fad. This season, the powers that be in the fashion world, have gone doolally over these glitter Miu Miu boots, and kicked-off a love for glittery weddings that will last long past the Christmas season. I'm seriously excited about glitter as a wedding theme - the secret is to add only a little bit, otherwise your wedding could end up looking like the Christmas Department at Harrods {a very scary place}. For more glittery fabulousness, check out my Pinterest board.

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My Relaxing Hen-Night Recommendation

Feather boas and learner plates - urgh! I hate them on hen nights, even as an ironic joke. Much better are classy spa breaks, or cocktails and dinner at a smart restaurant. If you're making preparations for your hen night, then make sure you drop some pretty heavy hints about what you want to your Maid of Honour. The last thing you want to do is find yourself spraying whipped cream onto a stripper, if your idea of hen-heaven is relaxing massage. My maids of honour got my hen night just right - two lovely ladies came to the flat to give us manicures, and then we headed out for dinner at a local restaurant. Why not recreate a spa in your own home, or look for spa day deals, and then you can use the pictures below for invitation inspiration from One Charming Party. I'm loving the idea of hen's receiving an eye-mask and a bath-hat as a hint of what's to come.

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Real Colourful 3-Day Morrocan Wedding: Stephanie & Anand

Prepare yourself for a blast of colour with this incredible destination wedding in Morocco! Stephanie and Anand celebrated their big day in Marrkech, in a three-day extravaganza, which included two wedding dresses and a camel, plus some serious partying. Stephanie arrived at the wedding in a litter carried by four robed men - way to make an entrance! It makes walking up the aisle look passé. I'm also loving the pink awnings and red carpets, plus these incredible two green thrones. Throw in all the wonderful traditional garlands of flowers, beautiful saris and a macaroon cake, and I'm in Moroccan heaven! Fantastic planning by Boutique Souk, and huge thanks to Joe Lasky Photography for his beautiful pictures.

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Reasonable Whimsical Wedding Gowns from BHLDN

Right now, I'm wishing I could get married all over again. The new autumn wedding collections are hitting the high street, and there are so many incredible dresses out there. Whatsmore, they're reasonable! These gowns are from American store BHLDN, but you could order them online, or even take a sneaky wedding dress trip to New York to pick one up. With prices starting at $260, you could afford it! Here's a few wedding dresses from their new collection.

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My Wedding in Provence - The Star Suppliers

Before I got married, I used to read all the wedding blogs where brides gushed about how their wedding suppliers were 'fabulous' and ended up being 'like friends', and I never really understood. Surely the caterers / wedding photographer / florist were just good people doing the job you'd hired them to do? Now that I'm on the other side, I completely understand. I LOVE all my wedding suppliers. They were the BEST team ever, and this feature is all about gushing about their fabulousness. If you get married in Provence, or anywhere on the Riviera, you should definitely hire these people.

Kerry from Lavender & Rose Weddings
aka The Best Wedding Planner in the World. I can not gush enough about Kerry. She is amazing. I still don't think I have a full handle on how hard she worked on my wedding day, because she's like a swan - furiously paddling underwater, and magnificently smiley and serene above. Let's just say I had a lot of wedding details, and a very clear idea of where I wanted them to go, and she made everything perfect. And that's just the work she did on the day. In the months before my wedding she found us a caterer, a florist, a wine merchant and dozens of other suppliers {some of which I didn't use....hello synchronised swimmers for £5000 for one song??!}. She worked to our tight budget, and was unfailingly friendly and kind, even when things got tense. And when the Ash Cloud threatened to prevent all my guests from flying out from the UK, things really did get tense. I love her. You'll love her. Hire her. She's worth every penny.

Chloé Brown from Caught the Light
Another incredible human being. There's not many people in the world who are through-and-through nice people. Chloé is one of them. She's generous and charming and the perfect guest at your wedding. And she takes the best pictures ever. I'm still absorbing the fabulousness of our wedding photographs, and I'm thrilled we had two bites of the Chloé-cherry with our two weddings. Apparently some photographers clock-watch and charge you at every turn. Chloe is the opposite. Hire her too. She's based in London, but she's happy to travel.

Marrou
Fantastic caterers found for us by Kerry from Lavender & Rose Weddings. She negotiated a fab price for us, and on the day they turned up with all the tables and chairs and everything else needed for our wedding feast. The food was incredible, the serving staff charming and attractive, and they would have stayed till dawn for no extra cost. Beat that!

Stéphane Tévenin
Stephan is a brilliant florist. He's charming and kind and happy to listen to a bridezilla speak broken French to him for hours. French florists are often old-fashioned and like to do things 'their way'. Stephan is the opposite - he designed the flowers exactly how we wanted them, and didn't even take offence when we chose to buy the baby's breath at cost from the market. I say we - that was another job that Kerry did for us.

Quatuor St Jean
Our lovely string quartet, who played their hearts out and made our wedding sound beautiful. They were so good that some of the guests in the church thought that we were playing a CD! They're run by the lovely Jenny How who is Australian {English-speaking, yippee!} and hugely helpful with music choices and suggestions. Jenny even recommended her hairdresser, who made me very happy and my hair very beautiful.

Joel at Kératine in Aix-en-Provence
A lovely man, and a talented hairdresser, he also tolerated my broken French, and made me feel gorgeous for my wedding day. Love him!

Other Star Suppliers - Wine & Champagne: La Cave Aixoise {Puyricard: 04 42 92 06 83}, Wedding Dress & Veil: Delphine Manivet, Bride's Shoes: Halston Heritage, Bride's Eyelashes: Lash Lab.

Picture Credits: All the photographs by Chloé at Caught the Light
Wedding Venue: Chateau Grimaldi near Aix-en-Provence

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My Wedding in Provence - Part 4 - The Evening

Another day, another set of pictures from my wedding. The last ones! We hosted dinner for our guests outside on the terrace in front of the Chateau, but we were worried everyone would be too cold for dancing. So instead, we ventured indoors into the basement, where we'd created a nightclub, with a bar and dance floor, and our incredible DJ, Sophie Callis. The large white helium balloons were originally intended to float above each table at dinner, but there was a bit of a breeze, and everyone was worried that they'd knock over glasses, so our wedding planner, Kerry from Lavender & Rose Weddings,, found a different home for them. They looked great against the ultraviolet light! We chose a traditional French wedding cake called a croquembouche, which was as delicious as it was dramatic. For more info about my wedding, do check out the Before the Big Day Questionnaire, which I've filled in below the pics! Gorgeous photographs published with thanks to the amazing Chloé from Caught the Light.

The Before the Big Day Bridal Q&A 

Where and when did you get married?
On 28th May 2011 in a tiny French village called Puyricard, just outside Aix-en-Provence. We hired a private château for three days.

What was your thinking behind choosing the venue and the decoration of the reception?
We really wanted a garden wedding, where we spent most of the day outside. So a warm day was essential. I wanted the day to feel chic, but relaxed, with a touch of fun. Bunting and DIY'd tissue pompoms ensured the venue didn't feel too grand.

Did you have a theme, colour or motif in mind?
Yes! As a wedding blogger, I spent many days agonising over which theme to choose. In the end I chose a Secret Garden theme, and a colour palette of soft grey, dusky pink and sage green. We had a key motif which appeared on all the invitations, place markers, programmes and pashmina tags. My sister gave me a Tiffany key charm, which I sewed onto my bouquet, and The Boy had a vintage key tied into his buttonhole. 

Who made your wedding outfit, and how did you come to that decision?
My dress and veil were by Delphine Manivet, and I felt gorgeous. Shortly after buying the dress, I had huge buyer's remorse. I'd never intended to spend that much, but after trying on dozens of cheaper dresses, and even travelling to New York in my quest, I kept coming back to the 'Anatole'.  My shoes were Halston Heritage, a bargain buy from The Outnet.

And how about your bridesmaids’ outfits?
I was determined not to turn into bridezilla, and I couldn't afford to buy my 5 bridesmaids dresses, so instead I asked them to pick a dress of their choosing in soft grey. This was a fatal decision! None of their dresses were the same shade of grey, so it didn't turn out as well as I'd hoped. If I had my time again, I would have insisted on the same dress!

Did you have any favours? What were they? Was there any particular reason why you picked them?
Every person had a vintage key and a fortune teller at their table place. The fortune tellers contained fun facts about me and The Boy, and inside was the menu. Everyone also had an envelope containing an invitation to the drinks party the next day, and a fake stick-on moustache. The moustaches were a hilarious ice-breaker - we had everyone wearing them by the end of dinner. All the female guests were given grey pashminas at the start of dinner to ward off any chill.

Who was your florist, what flowers did you choose, and how did you come to that decision?
Our amazing wedding planner, Kerry Bracken, found our florist for us. His name is Stéphane Tévenin, and he's the local Puyricard florist. He's wasted there, we should ship him to London!

Who was your photographer and how did you choose them?
I can't even remember how I found Chloé from Caught the Light, but she was our best decision ever! It's scary when you book your wedding photographer, because it's often one of the first wedding things you do, and it's an expensive step. Chloé was worth every penny.

Did you enjoy planning your wedding?
Honestly? No, not all of the time. I got really stressed at times, and we had some very difficult times. The evil Icelandic ash cloud nearly ruined the wedding by stopping all flights out of London, but luckily stopped spouting ash just in time. Also we had problems with the owner of our venue. Make sure you get everything in writing when you book a venue, as things can go wrong, and you don't want to have to threaten to sue someone 3 days before your big day. That said, planning my wedding was also a fantastic experience. I discovered a creative side to myself which I didn't even know existed, and The Boy discovered he is very good at making pompoms!

Did you have any DIY projects?
Tonnes! We were on a budget, but I was determined to have as many wedding details as possible. The wedding stationery, the fortune teller menus, the white pompoms, the place cards, the programmes - everything! The Boy's brother made all our wooden signs, and our lovely wedding planner, Kerry, arranged the clouds of baby's breath for the chapel. My family and bridesmaids and their lovely boyfriends helped decorate the venue, and I'm eternally grateful for their pompom pouffing, candle placing and bunting hanging.

What advice do you have for brides planning their big day?
Read the wedding blogs! Scroll through tonnes and tonnes of real weddings and save pictures or make notes about your favourite wedding ideas and details. Then try to narrow them down to one unifying theme or colour palette. Then get creative! You'll be amazed at how much fun it is doing wedding DIY projects. Rope all your friends and family in to help you out, and try to stay organised. Finally, have a real think about how to make sure you enjoy our wedding day. You don't want to have a headache or a tummy-ache, or to be worrying about when the caterers are going to arrive, or to forget to eat. If necessary, hire someone to coordinate your wedding day. But make sure you enjoy yourself!

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